Sometimes things work out just fine.
A few short weeks ago, I was loudly lamenting that I had not bought a sewing caddy I found at a garage sale. But that recent experience with hesitation and regret left me primed for the sewing box I found two days ago, at yet another garage sale.
While the one that got away was whimsical and handmade and fun, this one is staid and handsome and sensible.
The case I left behind made me smile out loud, but I think I knew that, if I owned it, I wouldn’t really use it. I have other similar cases and I have never pressed them into real service. They are a little tippy and awkward to move and, I don’t know, not really aligned with my organizational style.
I knew this case was really much more suited to my needs; I loved it the moment I saw it.
This is not to say that I paid the asking price for it! It was priced at three times as much as the box I didn’t buy and I would not have gone that high. But the seller wanted it to be loved and appreciated and was willing to accept what I could pay, she said, because she believed I would love and appreciate it.
She was right.
It belonged to the great-grandmother of the seller; great-grandma’s name was Violet.
Violet, and others in the family who came to use the box, left the case filled with the bits and bobs and flotsam of daily sewing. I spent a happy hour or two sifting through their treasures.
Wooden spools of thread, clothing patterns from the 1960s, needle books given away at stores. Pin cushions. Many, many buttons. I will think of Violet whenever I use the case.
But this isn’t Violet’s sewing box any longer. It’s mine now, and I just know she’d want me to use it and make it my own.
I’ll put most of the old stuff away and fill the box with the flotsam of my daily sewing. It will hold the things I use to sew yo-yos together, to embroider my redwork squares, to organize me through projects as yet unimagined.
I will pick it up and take it with me to sit by the lake on these perfect summer days. In autumn, I can carry it to a spot sheltered from the wind and savor the October sun.
I will transport it next to the fireplace when winter arrives and the lake freezes and the north wind blows cold.
And I’ll be awfully glad I didn’t let this one get away . . .