When we were kids, my sister and I lived by rules. My mother had her own version of the 10 Commandments and the greatest among them was this:
We were not to boast, show off, or draw undue attention to ourselves. And Mom had a look that could stop us, not to mention rogue elephants, in our tracks if we showed even a hint of an intention of show-off behavior.
Well, Mom, I’m a big girl now and, while I try to live a circumspect, modest life, I am so happy to have finished a specific project, that I’m going to start the New Year by tooting my on horn, ringing my own bell, and just generally acting goofy.
It’s done. It’s done! IT’S DONE!!
What’s the big deal, you ask? People finish quilts every day.
Yes, well, so they may, but this quilt was started when my niece was an infant and she is now 17. This quilt took longer to finish than my doctoral dissertation and that is truly saying something.
I don’t know why it took so long. I’ve finished other quilts in a more reasonable amount of time. To my defense, almost every stitch in this quilt was done by hand—hand piecing and hand quilting. But that has been true of the other quilts I’ve made—I just really hate sewing machines.
I worked on it in fits and starts and got distracted along the way by work and other hobby obsessions. I took courses in jewelry making and then started with the candy making I’ve told you about. I stopped being a college prof and became an associate dean, which took a lot of attention. Then I retired and we moved and I started doing other things and, and, and . . .
But this quilt called to me—all it has needed, really, for about the last 5 years, was to have the edges trimmed and the binding sewed on, maybe 4 days of work.
So, I finally did it. On one of the last warm days of fall, I dragged it out to our seawall and trimmed the edges. Then candy season hit and I stalled again but last week I took the time and finally finished the quilt.
And (here comes the really immodest part!), I love it! It’s a variation on an Ocean Waves pattern and I think I invented the setting. To my eye, it’s downright gorgeous and I’m going to hang it on the wall, in a place of honor, so I can be impressed with myself every single time I see it!
I might even start another quilt. I have dozens of little patches left over from piecing the top of this one and I have ideas. And working on a quilt is another great way to stay warm in the winter.
But, first, I have to do penance. Forgive me, Mother, for I have sinned—I showed off.
Congratulations…it’s absolutely gorgeous! Now say four Hail Mary’s. Happy New Year!
LOL–thanks, Susan! I figure if I sin only once every 17 years (!), I’ll be okay!
A stunning piece, worthy of self adoration on all levels! I think Evel would be OK with that, just this one time. I think I remember the first pieces being cut back in WallyWorld? Congratulations on your labor of love. Can’t wait to see it on the wall.
You DO remember me starting it at Wallyworld–I remember being so motivated . . . we can see how that turned out! Ha! I haven’t heard from Evel yet but she’ll be its biggest fan, I’m sure! Miss you!
Fabulous colors, Kerry! Of course you should Toot Your Own Horn for a moment…Does the Niece in question love it, too?
Thanks! This quilt isn’t actually going to the niece. One of the things that derailed me was making a baby quilt for her so I remember how long ago this one was started. I did finish hers while she was still a babe in arms–yay!
So happy that you are such a show-off! How else would we see and fully appreciate such a lovely quilt?!! I had meant to start a quilt last Christmas but put it off until after I move, (I have yet to move). I’m envious of your creativity (and now I must go do penance for my sin of envy- a few Hail Marys” should do it 😉
and so impressed with your doctorate too, btw.
best,
maureen
Thanks for the really nice comment, Maureen! When you do start your quilt, you can show off, too! 😉 And don’t be too impressed about a Ph.D.–that’s mostly just a product of stubbornness!
Congratulations.. I loved the colors that you use. Hope to see more in the future.
Thanks so much! I hope to see more in the future, too–I’m pretty motivated right now!
You have a great sense of light and dark
Oh, what a nice thing to say! Thanks!
I really like the dark and light variation in this quilt, well done you!
Thanks so much!! It turned out the way I hoped!
Gorgeous quilt, I love the colors and design 🙂
Thanks, Annie! It brightens up our kind of bleak world!
Looks beautiful. My mother had the same concerns, but I think we should feel satisfaction when we do something well.
Thanks! My mom is currently my biggest fan but she really didn’t want to raise a kid who was a braggart and too full of herself. And I do feel BIG satisfaction about the quilt!
What an amazing piece of work, your not showing off more like taking pride in a job well done….congratulations 🙂
Thank you! Yes, I think you’re right–I’m pretty proud of it!
Beautiful job! Those colors are so pretty.
Thanks–it was fun working with the colors. They always made me happy!
I think you should be proud of this, afterall there aren’t many who can do this. Shouting is ok in certain circumstances.
That’s a great way to put it–I’ll remember that!
What a beautiful quilt. It’s one of my ambitions to one day make a patchwork quilt. I’ve loads of nice materials collected. One day…
Best wishes to you for the year ahead.
Thanks so much! Making a quilt is very satisfying but it helps to be process-oriented, since it takes so long to finish one!
You deserve to show off–it’s gorgeous!
Oh, thanks! I felling pretty high on myself . . . and thinking I should start another!
I love the colours in the quilt, and I think your are allowed to show something as gorgeous like that off!
Thanks–I think starting the blog actually motivated me to finish! Everyone posts such neat things and I wanted to, too!
I think there is no harm in showing off your beautiful quilt! I mean, that’s what blogs are for, right? To show our thoughts and the things we make? I’m not surprised this took you such a long time, there are so many small pieces! I love the colour scheme, it reminds me of an exotic swimming pool. Have a fantastic 2014 Kerry! xx
I love that “exotic swimming pool” analogy! Since we live on a lake, I was trying to capture the look of moving water–you understood what I was after!
Somethings take time 😉 ! And this *thing* was worth waiting for. It’s gorgeous and I love that you have a seawall to place it on. You are not bragging; you are being inspirational….telling us not to give up, ever 🙂
As always, I love your take on the subject! And my ginger cat has a Z name, too–he’s Zack!
Zack! I like that.
Wow, Kerry, it’s AMAZING! You handquilted it? Hats off to you! And I see it’s Kitty-approved too 🙂
A little boasting now and then doesn’t hurt!
Thank you so much! Yes, it’s hand quilted–once I’ve worked so hard to sew all those little pieces together, I think a quilt deserves to be hand-quilted. Plus, of course, I have never made peace with a sewing machine! 😉 And, yes it’s kitty-approved. The back of it is black fabric and I had to clean up a ton of cat hair . . .
Oh wow this is an absolutely stunning quilt! I can only dream of being able to make one half as good as this as a total newbie. Beautiful colours! x
Thanks, Kate! I was just looking at your blog–you might want to follow the advice you’ve received, to start small and play–have fun, don’t expect perfection, just enjoy.
It’s beautiful! I love your kitty helper.
Of course you do, he looks so much like your two! Thanks for coming by!
I think you can be forgiven for shouting out about finishing this fabulous quilt, truly gorgeous.
Thanks! And I must admit my fingers are kind of itching to start a new one . . . I’ll report back in 17 more years! 😉
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Kerry, I love, love, love the quilt. You’re not showing off–you are sharing and thank you for that. We all have projects and passions we have to set aside or put on hold while we go about the business of life. My list of unfinished projects is pretty long. It’s great to see in your quilt and blog that opportunity to go back and bring to conclusion that thing you started in the past. You have a great blog. Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for the lovely comment! I have a history of letting projects lapse for a looooong time and then finishing them and being very happy and proud. You’d think I would learn! I’m glad you’re here, reading along!
This is amazing and so deserves to be seen!! I doff my hat to your skill and patience!! xxxx
Thanks, dear! XOX
Silly Kerry: No one lights a lamp and then puts it under a basket. Instead, a lamp is placed on a stand, where it gives light to everyone in the house or in other words Joy To The World. This is not showing of but sharing the joy of creating something beautiful, the satisfaction of finishing a project, the comfort for others that yes, indeed, in can take 17 years. ( still a miracle with all the things you have been up to) And that lovely, pretty lady beaming on that gorgeous quilt is you?? Thanks for sharing and please keep on tooting that horn as loudly as possible! with a big hug from Johanna
Now, see why I missed you?! Thanks for the lovely comment and, by the way, my mother absolved me of my sins! I do love my quilt . . .
I would hever have had the pleasure of enjoying your excitement and of seeing your beutiful quilt, so I am glad you showed off. I, too, was often exhorted not to do that, but there are some different definitions and I think you did not go too far off the straight and narrow. Just feeling your excitement and sense of accomplishment is a gift to me. Might get me up and going.
Thanks for the sweet comment! My mother has absolved me of calling attention to myself in this case–she agrees the quilt deserved attention. 😉
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It is downright gorgeous, worthy of showing off. Don’t hide your light under the bushel! (Okay, yeah, I know that’s not really what that phrase is about.) I especially love the outer border where you go off-wave. Fabulous. 🙂
Thanks for going back and looking! I love that quilt, love using all solid fabrics and playing with the color variations. I have tons of half-square triangles left over from that one so I may do something more with them next.
Triangle play — my next project. Play with no outcome in mind.
Really? I’m not known for my spontaneity . . . 😉
Me, neither! So it’s time to try, right?
Ummm . . . . we’ll see. 😉
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Your smile in this photo really does say it all! This is the deep happiness which comes from the completion and associated pride which comes from actually finishing something special, like this fabulous quilt. And it really is FABULOUS! The intricate pattern really captures the movement and reflections of water and the colour is just heavenly. And it is finished. I am so happy for you.
I can’t wait to see what you next……
Finishing a big project like this is an amazing feeling–pretty much every stitch in that quilt was done by hand. I don’t finish them very quickly!